A blog about knowing who you are in Christ and how to live free from eating and body image struggles
Thursday, August 20, 2015
How Great is Our God
I just watched this video of Louie Giglio's message entitled How Great is our God. He talks about how Big God is and just how small we are in comparison. He also talks about our genetic makeup and how God created us. If you are struggling with accepting who you are just as God made you, watch this video and you won't be able to deny that you truly are fearfully and wonderfully made!
Thursday, August 6, 2015
Eve's Deception
It is so easy to become trapped by lies. No one ever sets out to start believing a lie. But we are bombarded daily by a crafty enemy who is trying to slowly and methodically take us off course and lies are one of his most effective tactics. The first evidence of Satan’s deception is with Eve in the Garden of Eden. Let’s read the story of Eve’s deception. I think there is a great deal we can learn about how to protect ourselves from the lies through her story.
The
Fall
3 Now the serpent was more crafty
than any of the wild animals the Lord God had made. He said to the woman, “Did
God really say, ‘You must not eat from any tree in the garden’?”
2 The woman said to the serpent,
“We may eat fruit from the trees in the garden, 3 but God did say, ‘You must not eat fruit from the tree that
is in the middle of the garden, and you must not touch it, or you will die.’”
4 “You will not certainly die,” the
serpent said to the woman. 5 “For God knows that when you eat
from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and
evil.”
6 When the woman saw that the fruit
of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for
gaining wisdom, she took some and ate it. She also gave some to her husband,
who was with her, and he ate it. 7 Then
the eyes of both of them were opened, and they realized they were naked; so
they sewed fig leaves together and made coverings for themselves.
8 Then the man and his wife heard
the sound of the Lord God as he was walking in the garden in the cool of the
day, and they hid from the Lord God among the trees of the garden.
9 But the Lord God called to the
man, “Where are you?”
10 He answered, “I heard you in the
garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; so I hid.”
11 And he said, “Who told you that
you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree that I commanded you not to eat
from?”
12 The man said, “The woman you put
here with me—she gave me some fruit from the tree, and I ate it.”
13 Then the Lord God said to the
woman, “What is this you have done?”
The
woman said, “The serpent deceived me, and I ate.”
If we are going to try and fight against the enemy’s schemes
then we need to understand what we are up against. Nancy Leigh DeMoss in her book Lies Young
Women Believe and the Truth that Sets Them Free outlines well the progression of Eve’s deception.
1.Eve LISTENED to the lie
2. Eve DWELLED on the lie
3. Eve BELIEVED the lie
4. Eve ACTED on the lie
Lets look at this progression a little more closely. Eve’s first mistake was that she stayed
around long enough to hear what the serpent had to say. Don’t we do the same thing when we expose
ourselves to things that we know probably aren’t God’s best for us. Maybe for you it’s reading fashion magazines
and you think that looking at those pictures won’t cause you to compare yourself
to the model’s photo shopped beauty. Maybe it’s Facebook, instagram or snapchat
where you are just trying to stay in touch with friends but using this media
makes you feel judged and like you don’t measure up. But we just rationalize it
by saying to ourselves that this won’t really affect me because its not like
I’m doing anything wrong
Each individual needs to prayerfully ask God what things may
lead them into temptation and then needs to do their best to stay away from it
at all costs.
Consider the story of Joseph and Potiphar’s wife in Genesis 39. In verse 12 it says “She caught him by his cloak and said, "Come to bed with me!" But he left his cloak in her hand and ran out of the house.” That is what we need to do when we come face to face with temptation—drop our coat and run!
Consider the story of Joseph and Potiphar’s wife in Genesis 39. In verse 12 it says “She caught him by his cloak and said, "Come to bed with me!" But he left his cloak in her hand and ran out of the house.” That is what we need to do when we come face to face with temptation—drop our coat and run!
Eve chose not to
run and instead she engaged the serpent in a discussion about what God actually
said which caused her to ponder the lie.
By doing this, the serpent caused her to question why God had placed
that restriction on them which caused her to feel as though God was keeping
something good from her. Do you ever
feel restricted by God’s boundaries? It
is human nature to focus on the bad, the flaws, the negatives but we cannot
allow ourselves to do that. We must
focus on all that God has lavished upon us and remember that we serve a good
God who has placed limits on us for our protection.
Once Eve kept
thinking about what the serpent had said, she began to believe that he was
right. If lies go unchecked by the
Truth, they can lead us down a path of destruction. This is another reason why it is SO important
to be in God’s Word daily and to hide God’s Word in your heart so that when
temptation strikes, you are prepared to fight.
Finally Eve acted
on the lie by eating the apple. Friends
every sin in our lives began with a lie and eventually those sinful behaviors
become a pattern leading us into bondage.
I believed the lie that I had to prove that I was worthwhile. I believed the lie that others wouldn’t love
me if I failed. I believed the lie that everything was my fault. Believing these lies led me into the
destructive pattern of an eating disorder.
I became trapped by things I thought would make me happy and free and
instead I felt hopeless, depressed and alone.
It wasn’t until God exposed the lies I was believing and I replaced them
with His Truth that I found freedom, hope and contentment.
Beloved, what
lies are you believing? What is keeping
you trapped in a pattern of destructive behavior? Are you willing to ask God to reveal the lies
to you? Are you willing to surrender those thoughts and feelings to Him?
When temptation comes, combat the lies by
using God’s Word as your offensive weapon to fight off the enemy. Take comfort in knowing God's Word will not return void. Isaiah
55:11 says “so is my
word that goes out from my mouth: It will not return to me empty, but will
accomplish what I desire and achieve the purpose for which I sent it."
Saturday, August 1, 2015
Psalm 139:18-24
Away from me,
you bloodthirsty men!
20 They speak of you with evil intent;
your adversaries
misuse your name.
21 Do I not hate those who hate you, O LORD,
and abhor those
who rise up against you?
22 I have nothing but hatred for them;
I count them my
enemies.
23 Search me, O God, and know my heart;
test me and know my
anxious thoughts.
24 See if there is any offensive way in me
and lead me in
the way everlasting.
As we read through Psalm
139 we discover how intimately God knows us—how we think and act, how we were
made and how much He cares for us. Then we get to the last section and
David, the author of this Psalm, comes out with some pretty strong language
like “slay the wicked…away from me you bloodthirsty men…I have nothing but
hatred for them (my enemies)”. It feels like that came out of
nowhere. But let’s take a step back for a minute and remember that the
Psalms are David’s personal prayers to God. Even David got frustrated,
impatient, angry, and anxious about his situation and he wasn’t afraid to tell
God how he was feeling. He also thought he might offer God a few
suggestions about how He could make this situation better—just kill my enemies
and we’ll be all set LORD.
Don’t we do the same
thing? Don’t we cry out to the Lord and offer some feeble suggestions
about how to make things better? We say things like if only you could just make
me thinner, then people would like me and I would have better
relationships. If only you would make him pay for what he did to me, then
I could forgive him. If only my circumstances were different, then I
would be happy.
Friends, David shows us
that it is OK to cry out to the Lord and be honest with Him—to tell Him how you
are really feeling. God can handle it and He wants you to share your
heart with Him. In fact as we learned earlier in the Psalm, He already knows
what we are thinking anyways.
But then in verses 23 and
24 David shows us what to do next. He says “Search me and know my heart;
test me and know my anxious thoughts; See if there is any offensive way in me,
and lead me in the way everlasting”. In essence David is saying God here
is how I am feeling and what I would like to have happen but I realize your
ways are better than my ways. Please search my heart, my thoughts and
reveal to me any thoughts that would take me from your “way everlasting”.
We
need to do the same thing when we pray. We need to ask God to reveal to
us any lies we are believing or anything else that may take us down a path of
destruction. We need to ask God to help us not to settle for our own
human solutions but to ask God for His purpose to prevail. God is not limited by time, space or materials. Remember it is
God’s job to deal with our enemies—Exodus 14:14 “The LORD will fight for you;
you need only to be still”.
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